The casual nature of fuckbuddy relationships is an ideal convenience in the modern world. For those people who maintain a hectic lifestyle juggling work, family, friends and hobbies, a fuckbuddy allows you to enjoy sexual gratification without all of the relationship hassles that usually comes along with it.
And in a time when communication is as seamless as ever, finding a fuckbuddy has never been easier.
While fuckbuddy relationships usually develop by accident, there are a few ways to go about finding a fuckbuddy without having to go through the common dating channels. Let’s look at a few:
Use A Dating Site
Despite what you might believe, there are just as many women out there looking for casual sex than there are guys. Women enjoy fuckbuddy relationships just as much as their male counterparts, and so these frisky girls must be lurking somewhere, right?
Of course, and statistics show that the majority of these ladies are hiding on dating sites and apps across the globe. However, it’s important to realize that a lot of ladies who are looking for fuckbuddies don’t advertise outright. While a few girls out there might select “not looking for commitment” on their POF profiles, a lot of ladies will leave this section blank as not to advertise their intentions.
So strike up conversation with as many ladies as possible, and make your intentions known in a tasteful way. “I’m looking for a little fun, nothing serious” will yield much better results than “I want to fuck tonight”, so keep that in mind.
Post A Personal Ad
Sites like Craigslist are one of the go-to places for ladies who are looking for no-strings sex, and it can be a great way to meet potential long-term fuckbuddies.
Posting a personal ad on your local Craigslist section allows you to state your intentions without having to beat around the bush. Make sure to include your age, a physical description and your current situation (recently divorced, single for a long time, etc).
It’s also advantageous to mention that you’re not the clingy type who will keep pestering your potential fuckbuddy for weekly hookups, and will instead let them dictate the pace. This not only allows you set a kind of relaxed vibe, but also says that you’re not overly-desperate for sex.
If you’re not comfortable posting a personal ad, it’s also a good idea to browse the other personals to see what’s on offer. There’s a reason Craigslist is known as the online hub for casual encounters.
This one is a little unconventional, but when done right, the results can be staggering.
For those who don’t know, Tumblr is a platform allowing users to create blogs dedicated to their chosen subject. Naturally, this involves a lot of sex and fetish blogs personally maintained by people who are into such activities. It’s estimated that around 70% of Tumblr is dedicated to explicit material, meaning there’s somewhere in the region of 300 million sex blogs across the whole platform.
Tumblr is a very “personal” platform, so you won’t find any adult stars or celebrities peddling their wares on there. It’s purely by kinksters, for kinksters, and thousands of people have reported hooking up and meeting long-term fuckbuddies through there. Most bloggers actively encourage interaction, and there are millions of blogs dedicated to people’s personal exploits, so search Tumblr for blogs from people local to you and strike up conversation. Who knows where it could lead?